I can't let your rant go without offering up my own personal experiences and observations on relationships. I've had arguments with my mother, my sisters, with every girlfriend, and every female boss I ever worked for. The 16 years of daily arguments with my wife was nothing short of insane. Here's the point I want to make:
I've had male friends for 20 to 30 years without a single fight. But, I know that you women fight amongst yourselves quite often.
Maybe it's time to really examine what's going on in the female mind that they would need to argue about, well, EVERYTHING!