If I were accidentally killed I'd hope that the person that killed me understood that there is no profit in feeling guilty for the rest of his/her life. Guilt is a poison that destroys, not just the person, but one's family, and society in general. I wouldn't want my accidental death to be the cause of a lifetime of strife, of alcoholism, depression, divorce...

Here is my note in case someone does accidentally take my life: My dear fellow human being, You have ended my life, and in doing so you now have the responsibility of living twice as much. You have to laugh twice as hard, love two times more than you otherwise would have. I demand that you make this world a better place in my name, if only by living your life to the fullest. Do NOT allow my death to destroy the lives of others. Don't just have a good life, but have a GREAT life! It was an accident, I forgive you 100%.